“Hi, everyone!” The moment you say these words, you can feel tears welling up in your eyes. There he is, your dearest son, standing at the altar in the groom’s attire. He was always meant for this moment, traveling the world to find his lady love. When you realize how momentous the occasion is, your voice may tremble and the right words may be difficult to find. Still, you gather yourself together, look into your son’s eyes, and can see that forever sparkle in his soul smiling back at you. You can also see her, the bride, holding your son’s hand, and waiting for that big welcome moment to the family. So, here are a few tips that should help you make the best speech in the world!
Respect the Man Your Son Has Become
Have you ever come to recognize fully that your son is not the baby boy anymore? Surprisingly, a lot of mothers say that their wake-up call comes when they realize that it’s their son’s wedding. To formulate this realization into words would not be difficult. You would recount his days of growing up, how he looked up to you for everything, and how he has finally become a true gentleman. The mother of the groom speech should reflect this entire journey of your relationship with the son in a few words. If you want to keep it really memorable, think about some of the best moments you have had with your son. You never know, there may be stories yet untold that everyone needs to hear, especially the bride.
Don’t Feel Insecure about Your Role
Deep down, a lot of mothers may feel that after the marriage, the mother-son relationship may not remain as it was. While some changes are natural, the deep love a mother feels never really changes. You can always feel secure in your role as a guiding light in your son’s life! If you think it necessary, you may touch upon this point while making the speech.
Pass Over Your Legacy to the Bride
This is perhaps the most important moment of the mother of the groom speech. Deep within, you would have to realize how important she is to your son’s life. Now, she is one with the family, and you will have to do your part to make her feel welcome. To be specific, avoid all bitter feelings and possible animosities. Think of her as the daughter who has come at the right time in your son’s life (and to your life). Make sure that you mention how beautiful she is, and how deeply you expect her to be happy with your son.
